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Anyone in the UK that's made their own will?

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I know places like Macmillan etc. offer free will writing services, but they often want a cut or donation. I don't have a lot of money and what I do have I want to go to the wife.

I wondered if anyone here has done their own will or give me some pointers.

Thank you.
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Re: Anyone in the UK that's made their own will?

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The Aspie Toker wrote:
Mon May 16, 2022 5:38 pm
I know places like Macmillan etc. offer free will writing services, but they often want a cut or donation. I don't have a lot of money and what I do have I want to go to the wife.

I wondered if anyone here has done their own will or give me some pointers.

Thank you.
Lots of charities offering the free service. I wouldn't trust em. Apparently they can be insensitive come pay day.
If it's just you and the wife to worry about you need a mirror will. About a £150 with a decent solicitor.
I was looking at the free ones but was put off by aggressively the charities chase the money.
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Treetrunk wrote:
Mon May 16, 2022 5:55 pm
The Aspie Toker wrote:
Mon May 16, 2022 5:38 pm
I know places like Macmillan etc. offer free will writing services, but they often want a cut or donation. I don't have a lot of money and what I do have I want to go to the wife.

I wondered if anyone here has done their own will or give me some pointers.

Thank you.
Lots of charities offering the free service. I wouldn't trust em. Apparently they can be insensitive come pay day.
If it's just you and the wife to worry about you need a mirror will. About a £150 with a decent solicitor.
I was looking at the free ones but was put off by aggressively the charities chase the money.
Same here, mate. There has to be a catch with these free services.
I've not heard of a mirror will. I will have to look into that. Thank you.
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The Aspie Toker wrote:
Mon May 16, 2022 6:02 pm
Treetrunk wrote:
Mon May 16, 2022 5:55 pm
The Aspie Toker wrote:
Mon May 16, 2022 5:38 pm
I know places like Macmillan etc. offer free will writing services, but they often want a cut or donation. I don't have a lot of money and what I do have I want to go to the wife.

I wondered if anyone here has done their own will or give me some pointers.

Thank you.
Lots of charities offering the free service. I wouldn't trust em. Apparently they can be insensitive come pay day.
If it's just you and the wife to worry about you need a mirror will. About a £150 with a decent solicitor.
I was looking at the free ones but was put off by aggressively the charities chase the money.
Same here, mate. There has to be a catch with these free services.
I've not heard of a mirror will. I will have to look into that. Thank you.
It gets expensive when you start adding other people and dividing estates.
I paid £120 for ours. That was a year ago.
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Treetrunk wrote:
Mon May 16, 2022 6:20 pm
The Aspie Toker wrote:
Mon May 16, 2022 6:02 pm
Treetrunk wrote:
Mon May 16, 2022 5:55 pm

Lots of charities offering the free service. I wouldn't trust em. Apparently they can be insensitive come pay day.
If it's just you and the wife to worry about you need a mirror will. About a £150 with a decent solicitor.
I was looking at the free ones but was put off by aggressively the charities chase the money.
Same here, mate. There has to be a catch with these free services.
I've not heard of a mirror will. I will have to look into that. Thank you.
It gets expensive when you start adding other people and dividing estates.
I paid £120 for ours. That was a year ago.
I've had a quick look at mirror wills, and won't be needing one. She has years left to live. We're not married although I call her my wife. I just want to make sure she has everything once I am gone. I'm trying to save money because my mother has been diagnosed with Alzheimer's and her mother has been diagnosed with Alzheimer's and Vascular dementia. That's going to cost around £164 for each of them. Hence I am trying to save a bit on doing a will, but there are too many sharks out there.

There are no kids involved and we rent. I want her to have my two pensions and any money I have as well as any goods like the PC etc.
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My mum bought a simple will form you can get them online I think post office might sell them, she signed it and had 2x witnesses, it went through probate no problems, if your married and dont leave a will then the wife gets it anyway I think as she will be your next of kin. Just keep it safe and maybe have a couple of copies of it, if it’s a simple will no solicitor is needed.
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Surely if you are married your wife is your next of kin by default anyway ?
I know a will makes things much more cut and dry when the inevitable happens like but I’m sure she would get it all anyway
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IMO wrote:
Mon May 16, 2022 7:42 pm
My mum bought a simple will form you can get them online I think post office might sell them, she signed it and had 2x witnesses, it went through probate no problems, if your married and dont leave a will then the wife gets it anyway I think as she will be your next of kin. Just keep it safe and maybe have a couple of copies of it, if it’s a simple will no solicitor is needed.
Paul_led wrote:
Mon May 16, 2022 9:08 pm
Surely if you are married your wife is your next of kin by default anyway ?
I know a will makes things much more cut and dry when the inevitable happens like but I’m sure she would get it all anyway
Paul
We are not married. I did say earlier in the thread that we are not married but I call her my wife. If we were, then I wouldn't have to worry about a will as she'd get everything as you've already said.

I'll look into the Post Office thing. I trust them more than solicitors.
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Ah sorry dude , I only skimmed down it while I was cleaning out the grow room
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Paul_led wrote:
Mon May 16, 2022 10:33 pm
Ah sorry dude , I only skimmed down it while I was cleaning out the grow room
No worries, mate. I appreciate the help.
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